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Name : Tan SiKai
Rank : SOLDIER 2nd Class
Birthdate : 10 April 1989
Birthplace: Singapore
Ethnicity : Chinese
Religion : Christianity
Gender : Male
Height : 167
Weight : 56
Values:
-Commitment
-Trust
-Truth
-Reason
Personality:
ISFJ (Jung Typology Test) - I-22%, S-1%, F-25%, J-33%
Explanation:
* slightly expressed introvert
* slightly expressed sensing personality
* moderately expressed feeling personality
* moderately expressed judging personality
Traits:
* Large, rich inner store of information which they gather about people
* Memory for details which are important to them
* In-tune with surroundings - sense of space and function
* Can be depended on to follow things through to completion
* Will work long and hard to see that jobs get done
* Stable, practical, down-to-earth - Dislike working with theory and abstract thought unnecessarily
* Dislike doing things which don't make sense to them
* Value security, tradition, and peaceful living
* Service-oriented: focused on what people need and want
* Kind and considerate
* Likely to put others' needs above their own
* Learn best with hands-on training
* Enjoy creating structure and order
* Take their responsibilities seriously
* Extremely uncomfortable with conflict and confrontation
Career-defining traits:
1) extremely interested and in-tune with how other people are feeling
2) enjoy creating structure and order, and are extremely good at it.
Ideally, the ISFJ will choose a career in which they can use their exceptional people-observation skills to determine what people
want or need, and then use their excellent organizational abilities to create a structured plan or environment for achieving what
people want.
Relationships:
+Committed
+Difficulty in leaving a relationship which is bad, or accepting that it's over
+Selfless
+Intimacy as a tangible way of strengthening their relationship bonds
+Warm
+Difficulty with conflict situations
+Dependable and affectionate lovers
Although two well-developed individuals of any type can enjoy a healthy relationship, the ISFJ's natural partner is the ESTP, or the ESFP. ISFJ's dominant function of Introverted Sensing is best matched with a partner whose dominant function is Extraverted Sensing.
More at:
ISFJ Profile or
Protrait of
an ISFJ
"To be a hero you got to have dreams... and honor" - Angeal
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~Back at Home~
Monday, 7 May 2007
After a long and tiring and sleepy day in school, I am back home! Wa the sleep on the bus was great. Hoped it can last, but never mind I don't want to die just as yet..
Hmmm on the way back, niang and jiu jiu's honeymoon period was distrupted again. Niang threw her tissue and sweet wrappers into jiu jiu's bag as a joke, but apparently jiu jiu took it too seriously and reprimanded niang. Haix niang, you live a hard life. Anyway jiu jiu's intention is well-founded ba. He treasures the bag niang gave him and don't want to dirty it. But perhaps jiu jiu could be nicer to niang, for she only wants to entertain him. Seeing them together happily in the morning yet because of one mistake this relationship is disrupted upset my heart. I was brought back to my "conflict" with "her" yesterday..
Well it was just a minor problem from my view of it, if it was to involve anyone else. My relationship with "her" was as pure as silver (maybe a bit tainted here and there). It was only this year that things start to change. The first happened during the march holiday on monday. I couldn't remember the details, but it was about jogging together at the stadium. I asked her to join me, cuz its something I felt that she would like. But she turned down cuz she said that se was busy. Perhaps its my phrasing, while I was trying to tell her that she should not for-go her studies for exercise, she thought that I was accusing her. Haix.. so much for my "good communication skills"
Then the 2nd conflict happened yesterday. It was just over a word "devil". Well she was sick and I decided to pray for her through an msg. It goes something like, "Father in heaven, I pray for Dorcas that she will be healed oh Lord. Cast out the devil that is making her sick. In Jesus name I pray, Amen" . I may be too quick to associate diseases with devils act. Its just my immaturity. Yet I was stubborn, and insist that my thinking is correct, though I allowed her to argue back. She may be too thoughtful to do just that. Haix another "feeling" type of person.
Feeling a bit sorry for our relationship, but sometimes its so hard to say sorry, especially on such grounds where you do not know how right or how wrong are you. What if I was correct? Then I should insist on my view because she needs to learn. What if I was wrong? Then I should apologise. What if I do not know if I am right or wrong? Do I do both?
Haix why must Life be so dynamic? Why can't we have a fixed set of rules and formulae to follow? But then, what's the point? How do we learn?
I am such a weird guy. Obviously I like "her", yet I was so desensitised to my words. How many a times pastor preach about the power of words, how God form the heaven and the earth with His Words? How many a times do I offend others as well with just my words alone? Haix.. I need to change.. So much for thinking of approaching her this year.. Perhaps its just another elusive thought.. Let her just occupy my mind for now..
Father truly I pray for my relationship with her oh Lord. I pray for your blessings on us, both on our individual lives as well as those that intersect. Father guide as to be more peaceful together. We may not end up together, but even as brother and sister-in-Christ, let us enjoy each other's presence. Father I pray for blessings to come upon us, bless this relatioship, that it will be fruitful in Your eyes. Let me Father not have this loser attitude that if a relationship has no conflicts it will not be fruitful, but be as forgiving, as merciful, as forgetful as you oh Lord for whoever that trespasses, and do my best never to step onto other's lines. Let my boundary be so small that it will not cross over to others, and result in conflicts. Let all conflicts that were, that are, and that are to be, be settled peacefully, harmoniously and quickly, as you said in matt 5:24-25, that we shall settle our conflicts before offering our gifts to you. Let all conflicts be solved before the next service. In Jesus name I lift up my relationship with her, as well as with others, into Your loving Hands. Amen.
7 may 07 @ 10.16pm
(p.s. Ching Yee begs to be mentioned in my blog, so there you are Ching Yee! A exclusive place in my blog! haha.. Well may God bless you too with great gifts untold and unthought. May your life be fruitful. Have a prosperous life ahead!)
posted at : 21:15
to do list
rock climbing regularly
play paintball
go ice-skate
go roller-blade
go cycle
swimming!
hit the beach
and many more...
To Remember
07.01 Guo Hao's bday
01.02 Kenneth's bday
05.04 KaiYu's bday
15.04 Sin Man's bday
16.04 Nuranati's bday
02.05 Jimmy's bday
28.05 yaNN's bday
01.06 Xiu Wen's bday
15.06 Jian Wei's bday
07.07 Dorcas' bday
07.08 XiuXuan's bday
07.08 Xiuyi's bday
09.08 Singapore's bday
30.08 Tze Chong's bday
10.09 MaioSia's bday
07.11 ShiHUa's bdday
08.11 yIhUAn's bday
13.11 Cherie's bday
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March 2007
