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Name : Tan SiKai
Rank : SOLDIER 2nd Class
Birthdate : 10 April 1989
Birthplace: Singapore
Ethnicity : Chinese
Religion : Christianity
Gender : Male
Height : 167
Weight : 56
Values:
-Commitment
-Trust
-Truth
-Reason
Personality:
ISFJ (Jung Typology Test) - I-22%, S-1%, F-25%, J-33%
Explanation:
* slightly expressed introvert
* slightly expressed sensing personality
* moderately expressed feeling personality
* moderately expressed judging personality
Traits:
* Large, rich inner store of information which they gather about people
* Memory for details which are important to them
* In-tune with surroundings - sense of space and function
* Can be depended on to follow things through to completion
* Will work long and hard to see that jobs get done
* Stable, practical, down-to-earth - Dislike working with theory and abstract thought unnecessarily
* Dislike doing things which don't make sense to them
* Value security, tradition, and peaceful living
* Service-oriented: focused on what people need and want
* Kind and considerate
* Likely to put others' needs above their own
* Learn best with hands-on training
* Enjoy creating structure and order
* Take their responsibilities seriously
* Extremely uncomfortable with conflict and confrontation
Career-defining traits:
1) extremely interested and in-tune with how other people are feeling
2) enjoy creating structure and order, and are extremely good at it.
Ideally, the ISFJ will choose a career in which they can use their exceptional people-observation skills to determine what people
want or need, and then use their excellent organizational abilities to create a structured plan or environment for achieving what
people want.
Relationships:
+Committed
+Difficulty in leaving a relationship which is bad, or accepting that it's over
+Selfless
+Intimacy as a tangible way of strengthening their relationship bonds
+Warm
+Difficulty with conflict situations
+Dependable and affectionate lovers
Although two well-developed individuals of any type can enjoy a healthy relationship, the ISFJ's natural partner is the ESTP, or the ESFP. ISFJ's dominant function of Introverted Sensing is best matched with a partner whose dominant function is Extraverted Sensing.
More at:
ISFJ Profile or
Protrait of
an ISFJ
"To be a hero you got to have dreams... and honor" - Angeal
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Single. Again.
Monday, 7 January 2008
Hai I would not have tot that my 1st post after so long would be a sad one. For those that didn't know, I broke up with my "would-be" girlfriend on the eve of new year. Till now, I have still yet to settle down..
Let see.. This is a probation period set by her, termed by me. It started from the start of Prelims. We were study buddies, and she would frequently come over to my house to study for exams. Actually, its nearly every weekdays. haha.. So our relationship kicked off from there. We started getting closer.. from bro-sis relationship to couple-y. So the tickling gradually turned into hugging.. We also massaged for each other too (with clothes on of cuz... Jian Wei remember that hor.. haha..), and did weekly jogs in the stadium. Its nearly like I'll see her everyday! Moreover as "A" levels approaches, we would stay up late into the night together to do practice papers and I'd call to check her answers, but most of the times we'll get carried away.. haha..
There's also these few times when my mom and bro isn't home; she and I will just take the house as our own and kinda do our own stuffs at our own will (nothing serious happen so relax..) there will be those cliche moments where I'll hug her and study at the same time as well as washing dishes together (mostly its her la.. she insisted..). Then there are times where I'll lie on her lap and sleep (hee hee super blessed..). There is once where I had to leave her at home alone while I go to school for a mock math paper. Its quite an experience, to have a loved one at home waiting for you. You'll really feel such a yearn for your loved one, to hurry home to meet her. Moreover, I took the wrong bus and got home late, but there she is still studying quietly waiting for my arrival, and when me did, gave me a big smile welcoming me home.
There are also times where I went over to her house, when only she was at home. Though main purpose is to study, but as she needs to bathe and such, I'd either help her solve her sums, or lie on her bed and sleep till she's ready. Even then, when she started pulling me up, I would pull her to bed and hugging her to sleep.. Of course, after a while we still had to get up.. And she'll wash my face for me =D .. Really felt so loved by her, though she told me she doesn't know what's love..
Then come those days of trials.. It was after exam and we were both working.. Its really the time I missed her alot.. Maybe its that the situation is so different and I need time to cope.. Compared to A level period, we now have little time for each other.. Moreover in my workplace, the work is so routine, so I have actually time to reflect, which is the time doubt strikes real hard on me.. Many times I tried to counter, but as time passes, my defences became weak, and I began to doubt.. Its really my problem, that I failed to recall the good times.. I told her my problem, that I dun feel that she's putting effort into this relationship, and she got quite upset.. Then there were times I was overcame by my weakness, and she could not forgive me for that, for I knew perfectly well she just cant accept it. But then she still forgave..
Till the last time.. I think she really cannot take it anymore.. Cant really blame her.. I fail to see nor inquire into her heart, her emotions.. I failed to notice that she took quite a beating standing in between me and her mom ( her mom doesn't like me ).. At times when our personality clashes, I failed to see much from her point of view, but insisted on my "philosophical" point.. I really failed her..
Maybe she's right.. We are not compatible.. Maybe as yet, maybe forever.. Till now, part of me still thinks I am right, that my "philosophical" point of view isn't wrong.. Maybe so, but it cost so much just to maintain it.. Is there a practical philosophy? Maybe I am too young to understand as yet..
We broke up on 31/12/07.. A really wrong time to break up, but there wasn't any choice I guess.. The break was deep.. I thought we could still be quite close, but an emotionally line was drawn by her.. I thought we could still be best of friends, teasing each other, but a line of respect was drawn by her.. We are now.. Friends? By my judgement, less than a friend, more than a acquaintance..
I regret this relationship.. Moved on too fast, established too little.. The whole building collapsed..
posted at : 21:59
to do list
rock climbing regularly
play paintball
go ice-skate
go roller-blade
go cycle
swimming!
hit the beach
and many more...
To Remember
07.01 Guo Hao's bday
01.02 Kenneth's bday
05.04 KaiYu's bday
15.04 Sin Man's bday
16.04 Nuranati's bday
02.05 Jimmy's bday
28.05 yaNN's bday
01.06 Xiu Wen's bday
15.06 Jian Wei's bday
07.07 Dorcas' bday
07.08 XiuXuan's bday
07.08 Xiuyi's bday
09.08 Singapore's bday
30.08 Tze Chong's bday
10.09 MaioSia's bday
07.11 ShiHUa's bdday
08.11 yIhUAn's bday
13.11 Cherie's bday
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March 2007
