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Name : Tan SiKai
Rank : SOLDIER 2nd Class
Birthdate : 10 April 1989
Birthplace: Singapore
Ethnicity : Chinese
Religion : Christianity
Gender : Male
Height : 167
Weight : 56
Values:
-Commitment
-Trust
-Truth
-Reason
Personality:
ISFJ (Jung Typology Test) - I-22%, S-1%, F-25%, J-33%
Explanation:
* slightly expressed introvert
* slightly expressed sensing personality
* moderately expressed feeling personality
* moderately expressed judging personality
Traits:
* Large, rich inner store of information which they gather about people
* Memory for details which are important to them
* In-tune with surroundings - sense of space and function
* Can be depended on to follow things through to completion
* Will work long and hard to see that jobs get done
* Stable, practical, down-to-earth - Dislike working with theory and abstract thought unnecessarily
* Dislike doing things which don't make sense to them
* Value security, tradition, and peaceful living
* Service-oriented: focused on what people need and want
* Kind and considerate
* Likely to put others' needs above their own
* Learn best with hands-on training
* Enjoy creating structure and order
* Take their responsibilities seriously
* Extremely uncomfortable with conflict and confrontation
Career-defining traits:
1) extremely interested and in-tune with how other people are feeling
2) enjoy creating structure and order, and are extremely good at it.
Ideally, the ISFJ will choose a career in which they can use their exceptional people-observation skills to determine what people
want or need, and then use their excellent organizational abilities to create a structured plan or environment for achieving what
people want.
Relationships:
+Committed
+Difficulty in leaving a relationship which is bad, or accepting that it's over
+Selfless
+Intimacy as a tangible way of strengthening their relationship bonds
+Warm
+Difficulty with conflict situations
+Dependable and affectionate lovers
Although two well-developed individuals of any type can enjoy a healthy relationship, the ISFJ's natural partner is the ESTP, or the ESFP. ISFJ's dominant function of Introverted Sensing is best matched with a partner whose dominant function is Extraverted Sensing.
More at:
ISFJ Profile or
Protrait of
an ISFJ
"To be a hero you got to have dreams... and honor" - Angeal
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~An unfruitful morning..~
Monday, 14 January 2008
Just back from my jog from Christ Church Secondary, after sending Dorcas to her workplace (which is at Christ Church of cause!)..
Reflecting back, all the more I question myself: Why am I sowing seeds on her? It seemed like a waste of time. The moment I met her under her block, I thought we are ready for a conversation, as friends or whatever. Somehow, as many mouth opening and closing with many words coming out, I felt even more distant from her. We had digressed. There was no heart-to-heart talk, but just verbal exchange of information, like the cream she used on her face, her appearance for the day etc. I could see that she wasn't focussed on our conversation, or the lack of it. In the interchange she even admitted that she was searching if she could find her friends! From then on, I know all efforts are useless. Her heart was not there..
What can I do, but just regret that I sent her for her first day of work. I thought it'll cheer her up, dispel her fear, help her to be more positive, but I guess the time was not right for that. I asked myself: Is this the life I want to live? There is no hope in hoping. Maybe I should just let the seed germinate by itself. However, I fear that by leaving it to itself, it'll die! I am not sure where to go from here..
I forgive her for the hurt she caused; I want to reconsider my plans for me and her. I don't see her as my equal anymore. Instead it feels like I am trying to change her, to suit myself, which is totally impossible, since we are borned naturally different. There is no hope in that relationship..
I want to refocus my life for this year. I want to live a life of higher calling. Last week Sister Sin Man gave me bible study on Life's Greatest Aim: Pursue Love. I had been thinking for this past few days about this, and it came in timely. For this year I make this resolution, to pursue love. I know it will be hard, especially with regard to Dorcas. To all others it will be easier, since I had no previous relationship with them, and so it's easier to love; to Dorcas, I would be concerned about her feelings for me, how I am treated by her etc. I forsee that as the year ends, my relationship with her will be even more complicated. It is a challenge set by God to stretch me. I only fear that I can not handle the stress, that I am not good enough to handle the challenge, and in the end wreck the relationship..
My only hope is in this promise:
"For we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose" -Rom 8:28
It will all be good in the end. Even if I were to hit the worst case senario, I will not be afraid to stand up again.
The Lord gave, and the Lord has taken away; Blessed is the name of the Lord (Job 1:21).
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posted at : 08:21
to do list
rock climbing regularly
play paintball
go ice-skate
go roller-blade
go cycle
swimming!
hit the beach
and many more...
To Remember
07.01 Guo Hao's bday
01.02 Kenneth's bday
05.04 KaiYu's bday
15.04 Sin Man's bday
16.04 Nuranati's bday
02.05 Jimmy's bday
28.05 yaNN's bday
01.06 Xiu Wen's bday
15.06 Jian Wei's bday
07.07 Dorcas' bday
07.08 XiuXuan's bday
07.08 Xiuyi's bday
09.08 Singapore's bday
30.08 Tze Chong's bday
10.09 MaioSia's bday
07.11 ShiHUa's bdday
08.11 yIhUAn's bday
13.11 Cherie's bday
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March 2007
