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Name : Tan SiKai
Rank : SOLDIER 2nd Class
Birthdate : 10 April 1989
Birthplace: Singapore
Ethnicity : Chinese
Religion : Christianity
Gender : Male
Height : 167
Weight : 56
Values:
-Commitment
-Trust
-Truth
-Reason
Personality:
ISFJ (Jung Typology Test) - I-22%, S-1%, F-25%, J-33%
Explanation:
* slightly expressed introvert
* slightly expressed sensing personality
* moderately expressed feeling personality
* moderately expressed judging personality
Traits:
* Large, rich inner store of information which they gather about people
* Memory for details which are important to them
* In-tune with surroundings - sense of space and function
* Can be depended on to follow things through to completion
* Will work long and hard to see that jobs get done
* Stable, practical, down-to-earth - Dislike working with theory and abstract thought unnecessarily
* Dislike doing things which don't make sense to them
* Value security, tradition, and peaceful living
* Service-oriented: focused on what people need and want
* Kind and considerate
* Likely to put others' needs above their own
* Learn best with hands-on training
* Enjoy creating structure and order
* Take their responsibilities seriously
* Extremely uncomfortable with conflict and confrontation
Career-defining traits:
1) extremely interested and in-tune with how other people are feeling
2) enjoy creating structure and order, and are extremely good at it.
Ideally, the ISFJ will choose a career in which they can use their exceptional people-observation skills to determine what people
want or need, and then use their excellent organizational abilities to create a structured plan or environment for achieving what
people want.
Relationships:
+Committed
+Difficulty in leaving a relationship which is bad, or accepting that it's over
+Selfless
+Intimacy as a tangible way of strengthening their relationship bonds
+Warm
+Difficulty with conflict situations
+Dependable and affectionate lovers
Although two well-developed individuals of any type can enjoy a healthy relationship, the ISFJ's natural partner is the ESTP, or the ESFP. ISFJ's dominant function of Introverted Sensing is best matched with a partner whose dominant function is Extraverted Sensing.
More at:
ISFJ Profile or
Protrait of
an ISFJ
"To be a hero you got to have dreams... and honor" - Angeal
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My Campmate
Saturday, 24 January 2009
I have this bunk mate, name Benjamin Ong, sleeping next to me. So what got me into posting about him? He is one person whom I really want to reach out and help him.
I would stop short of converting him. I have no interest in converting people, only helping them.
Perhaps a short summary on how I got to know him. Met him during my Commander Preparatory Course in Tekong, cuz he wanna take cab to woodlands and is finding people to share load. I remembered telling him that if he could find another 2 more, I'll agree. Surprisingly, he got them fast.
I was usually very quiet in camp, and especially to my new unit's colleagues. He was an exception. Perhaps under his inquistive nature, I opened up alot to him. His lack of fear for his past amazed me, and his "heck-care" attitude interest me. He is interested in people, something I look up to, and can talk alot to people. In a split moment we became friends, and bed buddies.
We are really opposites, but we love to argue our own stands. We are experimental people, learning by experience than learning by theories. And we argue on religion as well. I was really surprise that someone could really be as interested in religion as he is, and he challenged me to be more knowledgeable and passionate for my beliefs. Through him I am reminded of my beliefs and strengthened my faith.
He is an unbeliever. Totally. But it was by choice, and a reasoned choice. He live each day trying to enjoy each day, unlike me who focussed more on the future. We would at times just argue on how we should live, and sometimes he wins, sometimes I win. I don't mind, cuz I am learning as much as he is.
Such a friend is hard to find. All the more I want to help him in his dream. He wants to be a better person, less tempermental and more committed, and to live a good life, turn over a new leaf. He used to do alot of forbidden things and was rebellious towards his parents. He know it is all wrong, and I can sense that he wants to change. He just doesn't know how.
Just like me. There are somethings I want to change, but doesn't know how. I am still trying, and I thank God for His faith in me. I don't care if people question about my God, and my inability to justify at times. It is by my belief that I can be stable and established, and understand what I am doing. It is by my faith in Him and my faith in His faith in me that I grow stronger and more happy with myself and my life, and walking in full confidence the person I want to be. This is what I want to impart to Ben, to be like God to him, that he can be established in his ways and walk his dreams.
I'll have him in my prayers.
posted at : 14:17
to do list
rock climbing regularly
play paintball
go ice-skate
go roller-blade
go cycle
swimming!
hit the beach
and many more...
To Remember
07.01 Guo Hao's bday
01.02 Kenneth's bday
05.04 KaiYu's bday
15.04 Sin Man's bday
16.04 Nuranati's bday
02.05 Jimmy's bday
28.05 yaNN's bday
01.06 Xiu Wen's bday
15.06 Jian Wei's bday
07.07 Dorcas' bday
07.08 XiuXuan's bday
07.08 Xiuyi's bday
09.08 Singapore's bday
30.08 Tze Chong's bday
10.09 MaioSia's bday
07.11 ShiHUa's bdday
08.11 yIhUAn's bday
13.11 Cherie's bday
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March 2007
